A New View Message #3 Posted by Sigmund Freud on 6 May 2005, 3:18 p.m., in response to message #2 by Cöburlin
Coburlin,
I think every one here and on eBay has missed a main point. My own guess is that you were a vitim of or a witness to close ones being victims of a lot of abuse. In your mind you seek to resolve this injustice by making others pay (was the abuser an engineer???)!!! You have taken you injury into eBay in the form that has irritated ALL. Your purpose IS to attract attention to your unresolved issues. Of course your issue has turned you also into an eBay junky with no real life -- it takes a lot of time to hunt after just about every HP calculator on eBay and contact their sellers for a an early auction end.
I suggest you take your anger and work with it to bring you healing. Professional counselling certainly helps. Find yourself another hobby or modify the current one. My guess is that you are a smart and resourceful person. You are investing in something that does not seem to honor you. You CAN change. Stop being the victim. Don't let the TRUE JERK who injured your psyche keep on having power over you. Take your personal power back in a way that honors who you are. If you do that, others WILL honor you and who knows -- you might be an eBay sellers that others would love to buy from.
Sigmund
PS: Trauma creates drama!
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